I've been discussing this with my friend Ashley Kate, and we both agree that forced cock sucking is not for everyone. I have purposely tried to avoid it for several reasons.
First of all, I've found that the majority of crossdressers are straight. Of course, many fantasize about complete submission, and that often includes a strap-on. Some even fantasize about being totally feminized and forced to act like a girl in every way, including giving blow jobs and getting fucked.
There are problems with that you know? For one thing, I'm not about to hunt down strange men and invite them over to fuck you, sorry.
Then there's the fact that its not safe! Have you thought about that? You can't just go around sucking unknown cocks through holes in the wall without them wearing a condom. I hate to ruin your fetish but that's just reality.
So I'll be happy to dress you, help you with your hair and makeup, spank you, tie you up, slap you silly and call you Sally (or whatever you like) but no men. I'll even let you suck on my strap-on and/or fuck you with it. But be warned, its gonna hurt!
I'll bet this would look cool on the luggage rack of my motorcycle. Those are the right kind of straps...
So you grew up fantasizing about being feminized in different ways didn't you?
The popular girls at school capture you and turn you into a submissive, feminine plaything perhaps.
Or, you are drugged at a party and wake up to find yourself in a nightgown, full makeup, and tied to a bed.
Maybe, a couple of female friends of yours come over for a visit and find the door unlocked. Meanwhile, you are prancing around in a very cute, frilly babydoll in front of the mirror.
Do any of these scenes sound familiar? Are they exciting to you? Of course they are, you're a sissy!
But how can any of these fantasies cum true in the real world? Can they? The answer is YES.
I'll give you an example of how I've done this in the past. The caught and blackmailed fantasy is probably the most popular. Lets say we've discussed your complete fetish and agree to make it happen.
I give you a spare key and leave the house for a while. You are to come in and try on a pair of my panties. I come home a bit later and see you like this and flip out.
"OH MY GOD-ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME?"
You blush, but you know that this is only a game right? I quickly grab my camera from the dresser and take a few pictures. Without another word I download them to my computer and show you.
"I think I'm going to upload these later, and I'll post your name and phone number OK?"
"What?" you say. "You can't do that to me, we discussed this Teresa."
"Lets see now, I guess I could post them on Twitter, and you have a Facebook page right? I'll just add that link."
"OK-OK, what do you want me to do?" you ask now taking this a bit more seriously.
I hand you a matching bra, and seat you at the makeup table. Now the fun begins. Slowly, very slowly, I give you a complete makeover explaining each step. You're loving this and if it weren't for your chastity belt you would have cum long ago.
You tell me what a good girl you are, and I have you speak in a feminine voice. We're having fun right? I've just started painting your nails.
There's a knock at the door. You jump. "WHO IS THAT! I CAN'T BE SEEN LIKE THIS, OH FUCK!"
"Its just a package I've been expecting, don't be so jumpy. Stay here and I'll get it." Several minutes go by and you hear women's voices inside and smell their perfume.
"Guess who that was sweetheart? Its my neighbors Bonnie and Susan. Did I forget to mention that I invited them over this afternoon?"
Your mascaraed eyes are almost popping out of your head. Your pretty red lips are open and you can't seem to get any words out. I gently take hold of your hand and lead you into the living room where the girls are waiting. I sit you down in front of them and finish your nails while I tell them your fantasy in full. Even the part about how you want to be teased, humiliated and treated like a sissy slut.
As your nail polish dries the girls finish their wine, and we wait for you to tell us that you're ready.
Some of you seem to think that you're the only one with these slightly unusual fantasies. Do you really think you're the only guy in the world that likes to wear women's clothes? Or be forced to wear them?
Not by a long shot. I'm going to share some common fantasies that a lot of guys have. There are so many of you out there that you could start a club. You can wear whatever you like, have parades, and hold rallies.
The fantasy of being captured and turned into a girl is a big one. You can fill in the details if your fantasy is somewhat different.
First, you are alone and vulnerable. Maybe at a bar. A group of beautiful women convince you to take a ride with them. How can you refuse?
You are driven to a remote place and begin to wonder where they're taking you. That's the last thing you remember until you wake up. Some time has gone by and you have been transformed into a girl, complete with breasts. Your skin is smooth and your voice has changed. You reach down to your crotch and see that the transformation is indeed complete. Now what?
You are taught to do your makeup, your hair is styled, and you are given lessons in walking like a lady. Male clothes are a thing of the past. After a week or so you barely remember who you were before.
Soon its time for you to leave. They give you a very sexy, low cut dress, your makeup is perfect, and your long, blond, hair is fabulous. You walk to the car with them, your high heels clicking on the driveway, and are put into the back seat. None of them say a word until they stop several miles down the road. You are pushed out of the car, a purse is thrown at you, and they laugh and wave goodbye.
You seem to be in the middle of nowhere. What do you do? You're a girl now so you decide to try to get a ride, and figure this all out. That should be no problem except there are no cars going by. And once you do get a ride, what then? Do you act like a woman, can you actually pull that off, and why did those women do this to you?
Standing out there in the heat, with your short dress blowing in the wind, you have a lot of time to think.
Finally you see a truck. You wave at the driver, not sure if you are flirting, and he pulls over. He offers you a ride and doesn't say a word. You realize just how short that dress actually is, and wonder if this man will try anything. Crossing your legs, purse in your lap, you begin to really feel scared.
Why did they do this? Whats going to happen to you? Is this reversible, or are you now a girl for the rest of your life?
The truck passes through some large gates that open automatically for him, and you see a huge building in the distance.
"The guys are really gonna like you sweet thing," the driver says with a wink.
"What guys? Where are we?" you say, and are reminded once again of your helplessness by your sweet, feminine, voice.
You finally stop at a parking lot and see that this is a men's prison. Your heart starts to speed up, and you find yourself covering you chest like a girl might.
The driver leads you through several locked gates, into an exercise yard full of very large, well built men. They all look up and smile at you. And there, with the biggest smile of all, is your ex wife.
"Have fun honey," she says, and you have figured out everything you need to know.
You are the new prison bitch, and your sole purpose in life now is to keep these men happy. These strong, sweaty, angry, and very horny men. Enjoy it!
Hats are an important accessory and can really make your outfit, as well as hiding that bald spot and keeping you warm.
Here are a few suggestions to help you shake off those winter blues and look great.
Lets start with the simple knit cap. John is modeling one that he made himself during his Christmas vacation. Its cute, it will keep him warm, and he doesn't even have to use hair spray (The fur is not real).
This next hat is perfect for those cold nights out on the town. Eric is wearing a very fashionable hat that he picked up at a consignment shop for a few bucks. Not only does it go with all kinds of outfits, but he can stick a feather in the band and pretend he's a pimp.
Never underestimate the classic cowboy hat. They come in many different fabrics and colors, and can be worn several ways. David shows off this lovely black one that he wears when he goes square dancing on weekends. On weekdays he's an Indian.
Don't be afraid to get fancy. Michael models this chimney sweep style hat that is made of soft, brushed suede. He adds the flower to show the world he has style. Michael is also the mayor of his city and organizes the St. Patrick's Day parade every spring.
Now lets say that you're just not a hat person. That's nothing to be ashamed of. By being creative and trying new things, you can make you own fashion statement right at home.
Larry is a chef at a local restaurant and works in a hot kitchen all day. At night he relaxes with an adorable pair of bunny ears and serves his wife dinner. I just love these!
What that large carrot is for is no ones business except for Larry and his wife. And her friends. And Jason from next door. And the muscular bodybuilder from down the street. And the girl at the carrot shop.
Because as David likes to say; "We can go where we want to. A place where they will never find. And we can act like we come from out of this world, leave the real one far behind. And we can dance." *
A lot of people that wish for things get so focused on the good parts that they tend to forget the downside. Lets talk breasts.
There are several things you should be aware of that are part of having big breasts. First of all, men will talk to your chest. You're going to wear low cut tops, tight sweaters, and other revealing things, and then find that the guys have no idea what your face looks like. Are you sure that's what you want?
Then you'll need bras. Lots of them. Do you have any idea how much a good bra costs? You'll have to try on all different types and styles to find one that fits you comfortably and supports those puppies properly. Its not that easy.
And while we're on the subject of bras, there are many different kinds that you'll need for various outfits. Like the Convertible Bra, are you familiar with that one? There's also the Adhesive Bra, the Bandeau Bra, the Belly Dance Bra, the Bridal Bra, the Built-in Bra, the Cupless Bra, the Demi Bra, the Front Closure Bra, the Full Support Bra, the Minimizer Bra, the Padded Bra, the Peephole Bra, the Push-up Bra, the Racerback Bra, the Shelf Bra, the Softcup Bra, the Sport Bra, the Strapless Bra, the T-shirt Bra, the U-plunge Bra, the Underwire Bra, and the Water Bra. Get ready to max out that credit card.
And lets not forget the bikini. The main purpose of a bikini is to show off your body, especially your breasts. Are you ready to strut your stuff at the beach, in front of hundreds of horny guys, inciting multiple hard-ons and causing fights with their girlfriends and wives? Are you sure that's what you want?
What about corsets? You'll probably have to take out a loan or a second mortgage after all that shopping, but that's how it goes. There are as almost as many corset styles available as there are bra styles. Underbust, Overbust, and the Waist cincher are the main types, and you'll want one in every style and color.
(Corset photo has been removed by request-sorry Eva)
Of course, men do love breasts, and if you find someone special than its perfectly all right to share. Just be warned that once they get a taste of a good thing, they'll want more and more and more.
Many of you seem to feel that if only you were a woman that life would be perfect. You would never have a problem and live happily ever after.
Maybe yes-maybe no.
Are you prepared to shave your legs, and keep them looking smooth and pretty at all times? Even in the dead of winter just in case? Just in case you end up back in your bedroom with a guy who would happily screw anything that moved. Are you sure that's what you want?
And what about lingerie? Do you really want to have every type and color of panties, bras, camisoles, nightgowns, slips and other assorted necessities filling up your dresser drawer?
Then there's the hairdresser. You have to decide on a color, length, and style, and sit in that chair at the beauty salon just praying that they get it right this time. You read all the fashion magazines, and study the popular hairstyles, and then you find that the blond bob you chose is no longer in style!
What about manicures? Have you consider how much long fingernails limit your lifestyle? Just try picking your nose like you used to, forget about it. And if you have to change a flat you might as well just kiss those gorgeous french tips goodbye.
Lets talk high heels. Sure, they look great and are sexy as hell, but they hurt your feet. Not to mention that some brands are ridiculously expensive, usually the ones you want. Soon you'll have a fantastic collection of shoes and boots and that only leads to one thing. More shopping.
Of course it is fun to go shopping, and spend the day trying on dresses that you have no intention of actually buying. But once you start you will become hopelessly addicted, and want everything in the store. Are you really ready to wear short, short, skirts and a pretty blouse, and have all the guys at the mall drooling over you?
OK, lets say this is what you really want. You've shaved, got your hair and nails done at the salon, and bought a new outfit and heels. Your makeup is perfect and you have on just the right amount of perfume. Now what?
You sit at the bar trying to look interested but not desperate. Strange men keep sending drinks over to your table. You hear pickup lines that you never imagined a grown man would actually say. Finally a really hot guy sits down and introduces himself. You're in love from the second he tells you his name. Kirk. Within an hour you end up back at his place going at it like rabbits.
The next day you notice a picture of a couple in the living room. Its Kirk and a woman. He tells you that he's in the middle of a divorce, and made a huge mistake with Linda. Linda? Who the fuck is Linda?
His divorce is finalized a couple of months later and he asks you to marry him. You have several reservations but sex is fantastic and the ring is huge. You are now seriously considering becoming a wife. Kirk's wife, til death do you part.
DON'T DO IT! RUN AWAY-RUN AWAY WHILE THERE'S STILL TIME!